YOUR INSECURITIES DOESN’T DEFINE YOUR FUTURE!

Your insecurities does not define your future. Your insecurities are just outdated perceptions, opinions and situations that has happened to you in the past that you haven't let go of yet.

Someone could have hurt you in the past. Someone could have said something that has stuck with you for years. Someone could have even chose someone else over you, and you haven't moved on from that because you're still questioning yourself about why this person has left you.

The truth is your insecurities are bringing these people to you. The ones that constantly hurt you, and bringing you down. The ones who cheats on you with another person. The ones who bullies you, or counts you out. The one who is just mean because they don't know how to be nice.

Whatever the case maybe, these insecurities that you won't let go of, are bringing these crowds of people to you. To show you a reflection of how you're feeling on the inside.

Sometimes you like to put others words, opinions, actions and behaviors over your own. You let other people have so much power over yourself. When someone doesn't like you, in the way that you like them, you start questioning yourself and not questioning them, or just questioning the situation? You're saying "why didn't they chose me?" instead of saying "maybe it's a blessing in disguise!"

We are so used to things just being so negative because of how we grew up, but the truth is the reason why people are so nasty to you, is because you are nasty to yourself. You don't treat yourself with love, you let people walk all over you, you have more hate in your heart for yourself than you do love!

Then you wonder why, all the people around me are such haters?! Because the biggest hater out of all of them are you. You are your biggest critic, people are just reflecting that to you.

We have to stop letting people have so much power over us. We can't keep letting words determine who we are? We can't keep letting situations that ended, keeps on ending us? We can't keep letting people control our minds, and harden our souls. People should never have any type of control or power over you. This is your life, and you're suppose to live it!

Living is not judging who we are, living is not staying in the past and connecting the present moment to our past situations. Living isn't even trying the things we want to do because we're scared that we won't be like others. Everyone has their own path, and purpose. Your purpose won't be like everyone else's. You're a different soul, living a different story with a different path. Not everyone had it as hard as you, not everyone had it as easy as you. Some people had to be thrown in the water and swim their way to the top. Others were already at the top, and had resources.

The point is, people shouldn't have power over how you feel about yourself. What people say or do, doesn't define your worth. What people are accomplishing in life, shouldn't hinder your accomplishments. You shouldn't compare yourself to anyone, because God made you, you for a reason. If he wanted you to be someone else, you would be someone else.

Start appreciating the flesh, that God has gave you. Start appreciating yourself. Start appreciating who you are, and what you stand for. Start appreciating how special you are. You are God's child, and no mistake. These insecurities of yours, are illusions to keep you stuck, in the past.

Let it all go, forgive those people who has told you, you weren't able. Forgive those people who bullied you as a child. Forgive your parents for being emotionally unavailable. Forgive yourself for accepting the bare minimum. Forgive those people who count you out. You will fit in with someone one day, and you will be loved one day. THE RIGHT WAY!

But you have to lead by an example, and pour that love into yourself. Start showing people how to love you. Start showing people how powerful you are. Start showing people the real you that you mask because you're scared of what others might think. Start showing love to yourself. No love is better than self love.

Don't forget to connect to God as well. He will be the best provider and will show you exactly how to forgive and love everything around you. Including the ones that has hurt you the most.

Insecurities are just outdated perceptions that need to buried. And never bought back up.