3 Ways How I GoT RID OF A FEAR BASED LIFESTYLE

I know what it's like when you're scared to open up to that one person when dating. I know how it feels to be scared to go out with a lot of people because there is too much energy in one room. I know how it feels to be scared to be yourself because you've been shut out your entire life and silenced. I know what it feels like to want something so badly but is scared to get it because of what others might think or say about you? There's so many things to fear in this world because this world was raised and built off of fear based living. They do not believe in themselves, they do not believe in their family, or friends. They're scared to open up because they got really hurt in the past. The same cycle that seems to repeat itself all the time. No one ever heals, everyone just continues to live their life the way they're comfortable because they're scared of change and being uncomfortable, most people are going to stick to what they know and they're fine with that. But me? Absolutely not. I have changed my fear based thoughts and living and here's how I did it:

Number one, is to remove all negative energy from your life. Remove anyone who triggers you. Remove anyone who you've always had a bad gut feeling about, but was scared to remove them from your life because you've never had boundaries set. Remove those people who are draining your energy, constantly taking and never giving. Remove those people who speak fear into your plans. Remove those people who doubt you. Remove those people who are envious and jealous of you. Remove those people who will never congratulate you when it's time. Remove those un-loyal people who are just around to be nosy, in your life. Remove those people who compare their journey to yours because at the end of the day, you are not the same person and God's end goal will not be determined by a person that is not him. REMOVE ANYONE WHO IS INSTILLING NEGATIVE VIBES OR ENERGY INTO YOUR AURA. YOU CANNOT GROW WHEN OTHERS WANTS YOU TO STAY AS LOW AS THEM. YOU WILL NOT BELIEVE WHEN THE ENERGY AROUND YOU IS TRYING TO CONVINCE YOU NOT TO BELIEVE. YOU WILL NOT PROSPER BY A SNAKE, BECAUSE GOD KNOWS THIS PERSON IS A SNAKE AND DOESN'T DESERVE YOUR BLESSINGS SO HE WILL WITHHOLD THEM! Do not let anyone steal your dreams. CUT THEM OFF THEY'RE NOT IMPORTANT.

Number two, ISOLATION. After cutting your annoying friends, and family out the picture, you're alone. GOOD. This could be one of the best things that has happened to you in a really long time. Now, I am not saying it is going to be easy being alone, because you're so used to being with friends, and coping with smoking, drinking and partying. Being alone in solitude with your thoughts can be one of the most scariest things because we have never really truly paid attention to ourselves and our voices. We run away from ourselves when we focus on everyone else's wants and needs. But now, it's time to focus on your needs. Listen to those voices, understand where the voices are coming from. Are you battling with demons because a lot of us are. Everyone has demons, hate to break it to you. But you need to know the difference between what's real and fake. Those voices that are negative are fake. They're not real. They are not telling you the truth. They don't want you to find out who you really are, so they spill all these lies, so you're away from your potential. Which is your higher self. Your higher self will never ever put you down, but encourages you to pour love into your body, mind and soul. When you spend time in isolation, you will start to see the difference because you're going to be healing yourself, and letting go of the old version that no longer matches with your future self. Spend time with yourself so you can really understand who you are.

Last, but not least. Connecting with God. God is like the most understanding spirit you will ever connect with in your life. He will never judge you. He will never throw the past in your face. He will never neglect you. He will never leave you alone. He will never let you go. He will never talk behind your back. He will never be envious and jealous of you. He will never put you down. He will never leave you alone. In fact, he will be your best friend, your parent, your biggest supporter all in one. I have never felt the love that I feel right now until I connected with God, and it's early in the relationship with me. I just started building our relationship and he has helped in ways my parents of 24 years couldn't help me with. God is waiting for you to connect with him. He is waiting so he can give out the same love that is missing in you too. One thing I've learned is that everyone deserves to feel loved. We do not end up feeling love because we look outside of ourselves. But God is in you waiting for you to understand that he is here to stay, if you're willing to show up. You will never feel fear, anxiety, stress or worry again after you bring it to God. In fact, you'll be so confident and filled with love, you will be surprise on much God transforms you. Trust the process and trust in God

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