THOSE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS ARE NOT YOU

I always used to have such negative thoughts about myself. I used to believe that I wasn't good enough. I used to think that I wasn't pretty. I used to compare myself to other women. I used to just overall be so hard on myself. I did not understand why I was feeling this low, and full of depression. I did not understand why I was so hard on myself, but now that I had been through what I have been through, I am understanding why these negative thoughts took place.

On my last articles, we talk about low vibrations, and the things that you attract when you are vibrating at a low energy. When you are filled with anger, grief, sadness, guilt, fear and more, you're prone to attract people who matches those wavelengths.

Now, you think these people are your friends because of the similarities, or because you guys hung out a few times, and have a few things in common. But when you are not in the energy of loving yourself, those around you aren't going to show you the love either. Most of the times, they are in the same exact wavelength as you. Most of them, are going to be your friend because they see your light before you do. They would like to take advantage of your lower self as much as they can, before you wake up. They will help you tear yourself down, help you by influencing you to do things that they know is not a good thing for you to do. When you're vibrating low, energy vampires will come out the wood work, and gives you lessons after lessons until you are awakened.

One of those lessons, is projecting their feelings unto you. Those negative thoughts, those negative feelings, the depression, the trauma bonding, the making sure you're taking care of everyone else before taking care of yourself. It's all a test to see when you're going to know what's your problems vs theirs. Your thoughts vs theirs.

Many people aren't confident because truly the people around them are smaller than them. As much as I want to sound loving, it's not loving when you have to shrink yourself to fit in. I am going to be that friend to tell you, HELL NO! STAND OUT!

A lot of people are scared to stand out because they do not want to lose those fake friends, that you shouldn't be scared of losing if I were you. But I understand, it's hard when you have an emotional connection with people, and you have to let them go, due to their toxic mindset, and lifestyles. But watch how you stop learning how to shrink yourself for people. Watch how those negative thoughts will just go away naturally. WATCH how beautiful you will feel, and watch how all your dreams will start to align with you because you aren't living for THEM! You are living for YOU!

The reason you aren't feeling to confident is because of the energy you are accepting. The energy you are around. When you have a bunch of friends and family, who really do not love themselves, who lives off their ego. You are automatically going to learn that same behavior and act just as such because energy transfer is a real thing. You are going to start playing small because that's what you're used too. That's the energy and spirit you're used to being around. No one wants to level up, because they have their own battles, insecurities, and beliefs. So they will do anything to pull you away from yours. You have to know when to leave, so you can be free.

I am not telling you what to do, but if you are the one that has a hard time finding love for yourself. If you are the one is struggling with confidence, and overall love for yourself. Look at your environment, look at the people you invite in your space, look at the people who you invite in your body, and ask yourself are these people making me feel as low as I am feeling? Because they probably are. I do not want to put the blame on just the company you keep, but you need to know your worth. You need to stop accepting the bare minimum. You need to stop giving your energy away so freely. You need to set boundaries. You need to stop being so nice. People aren't nice to you, and this is why you have to play yourself and play small because you want to be loved by people who do not even know what love is and how to love themselves.

You honestly see how these people take care of themselves. You see the dramatic situations they place themselves in, you see the abuse they continue to be around. Why are you wanting love from someone who doesn't know anything about it. Don't be around people who are eating your energy up. Learn how to separate from negative vibes, and learn how to be your own vibe. The reason why you attract so many people because you really are that girl and boy! Just imagine, how much amazing people you will be, attracting when you are vibrating at a higher energy and not playing yourself small.

Love yourself first, and start by cutting off the devil energies who do not deserve access to you! You are amazing, you are strong, you are worthy, and you're successful. Believe and trust yourself that everything is going to work out in your favor! You got this!