FORGIVE YOURSELF!

After forgiving all of those who has hurt you, all of those who has betrayed you, all of those who has neglect you, after forgiving everyone who has done wrong to you. The most important step is forgiving yourself. Yes, you. We want to do everything for everyone else but always forget about ourselves. It's like natural nature, because you've been a people pleaser all of your life, so it's easier to forgive people for what they put us through. But hard to forgive ourselves for accepting it, going through it, and being stupid.

Honestly, it is really okay. Life is full of lessons, and you're suppose to hit as many cycles, until you learn how to get out of it. It doesn't matter what age, time, year it is. It's the fact that you're noticing the pattern, because enough is enough. It's the fact that you're allowing change to come in, and that's amazing. It's the fact that you even forgave everyone after holding those long grudges for years. It's the fact that you noticed. Now you're going to make those changes.

We tend to beat ourselves up because of how outsiders look. Some people have it all together at 21, some have it all together at 18, some have it all together at 25, and some have it all together at 45 years old. It does not matter who has it all together. It doesn't matter about the people outside of you. You are the only person you should be worried about, because not everyone has the same story as you. Not everyone had to go through those harsh lessons like you. Not everyone had to be the generational curse breaker like you. Not everyone had to go through terrible things like you. No one is you and that's what makes you special. DO NOT compare your journey to other people, and try to speed the process of healing and learning. Everything is going to come to you in a divine timing. God knows what he's doing. He knows what he assigned you to do.

Do not question yourself. DO NOT question the Lord. DO not question the life lessons, the consequences, the pain and suffering. But thank God for all the things you have learned from these situations, and be proud of yourself for fighting these battles, and still being here today reading this article. I know it's hard, and I know it was painful. I know you're sad, and one day you'll be thankful. Forgive yourself. Forgive yourself for going back to what hurt you. Forgive yourself for allowing people to walk all over you. Forgive yourself for giving your body away so easily. Forgive yourself for cheating. Forgive yourself for all the mistakes you have made. You are a human, living in a terrible society, trying to find love because your parents didn't do that for you.

But now it is your turn to find love for yourself. What makes you happy? What do you like to do? What are your passions? What are your dreams? What are your end goals? What are your goals? What do you have on the bucket list? What do you consider self care? There's so many ways to find yourself again. There's so many ways to have freedom again. There's so many ways to be happy again! But you first have to forgive yourself for all the mistakes you have made in the past. The past you, doesn't define the future you. You'll be able to rewrite a whole brand new version of yourself, if you can let go of what is no longer serving you.

Say goodbye to the negativity, the self sabotage, the reassurance, the neglection, the pain, the suffering, the traumas, the negative influence, bad memories, bad friends, bad people. And say hello to change, and blessings. Just turn to God when you are ready for a forever friend. Turn to God when you need someone to vent to. Pray to him, and allow him to understand you, so you can understand you.

Again, if God could forgive you for all your sins, you can forgive yourself.