DO NOT BE A MEAN GIRL, LOVE YOUR NEIGHBORS!

Rule number one, stay away from mean girls! Rule number two, DON'T BE A MEAN GIRL! It's not cool to be a mean girl. It's not cool to gossip about other people, especially the people you wouldn't dare to say it to their face. It's not cool to make fun of someone! It's not cool to be a bully! It's not cool to spread rumors! It's not cool to tell someone secrets to another friend! It's not to cool to lie on a person! It's not cool to talk badly about people in a group with your other mean friends. It's not cool to BE A MEAN GIRL!

When you have those types of friends, it honestly shows the type of person that you are. It shows a lot about your aura, spirit and energy. It shows how hurt you really are. It shows how insecure you are. It shows how weak you truly are. What I learned about the mean girl aesthetic, I always notice that they pick on other people to make themselves feel higher, prettier or better.

Yes, I was in the mean girl group. I don't ever call myself a mean girl because I never really was. But I was friends with the mean girls, who always talked horrible about people for no reason. Although, I never stood up for those people because I was weak myself. I am writing this blog today, to stick up for those people. The ones who gets bullied by people for no reason, because they have a shine to them. They have a light to them that the bullies wish they had! They have the energy and personality that is authentic. That is hard to find. They have good energy that the bullies can't ever seem to grasp on because they are bullies!

Listen, when you have a group of girls hating on you, for being you. You are doing something right, continue to shine bright. Continue to know your worth. Continue to be who you are. It's triggering people that wish they can authentically be themselves. It triggers people that you are loved by many. It triggers people that God chose you, and not them. It triggers people that you can get every guy, and they can't! It triggers people that you are so naturally beautiful. Being talked about, does suck. It's not a good feeling when you feel like eyes are on you for the wrong reasons. But trust me, people who discuss you, discuss you because they are legit in love with you. Hating and jealousy is a weird way of loving you. They can't be like you, because you're so original, so they find ways to bring you down.

People that admire you, for certain things, will tear you down for those things because they lowkey admire it. Say you have amazing lashes, and there's this one girl who always picks on your lashes. That's because she feels like you look amazing with them on and she wishes she can pull that look off like how you do. But instead of being a nice person, and letting you know how beautiful your lashes are. She's going to tell you the opposite, so you can feel bad and insecure about it, due to her own projections about herself. She feels like she doesn't look good in lashes, and sees that you look amazing in them and it's triggering her that it looks good on you because she wishes it looked good on her.

This is admiration, and I wouldn't take anything literal. I would take mean, backward, and backhanded compliments, as a compliment. You know that haters have to move a certain way, so they feel like they're not hating on you but in reality if you know the game. You know that they are a hater, and what they say shouldn't affect you.

Other peoples words should never define you, other people's point of view shouldn't define your worth. People's words are literally a reflection of how they feel about themselves. People are unhappy, so they feel more free from their insecurities and problems by making someone feel as low as them. You have to continue to be a light. Kill them with kindness. Do not react. Do not respond, and if you do. Be nice. What's amazing to me, is when people try to attack you and you don't get out of character for those that wants you to get out of character so badly, because so many people have this fake image of you and how they want you to be in their heads.

That is not your problem, or responsibility.

Most of the time, being a mean girl results in huge karma. People think their actions won't get a consequences. But it will, I never felt the need to talk about someone because it does nothing besides waste time, and energy. I also believe that God is watching at all times, and when you are spreading hate, hate will continue to be your life. You will be surrounded by people who hate on you, just like how you hate on them. Life is a huge mirror, and how you treat others, is how others will treat you.

This is why I spend my time being nice and loving, because honestly it takes less energy to be nice, and to throw a nice compliment at someone. You might not even know that it makes their entire day. You do not know what people are going through, so your mean negative words can be the last straw for them to end it all. Please spread kindness and love because most people lack love, more than they lack hate. Most people aren't surrounded by love! It's my goal to be that one person to always be kind and genuine. You are my neighbor. We may not be friends, but we are God's creation. So when you're being mean, you're being mean to another one of God's children.

I wouldn't want to hurt God's creation. God has made everyone special in their own way. Regardless, if you can see that or not. Everyone deserves to be loved. Everyone deserves a nice friend. No one deserves to be talked about in a negative way. No one deserves to feel unlovable. No one deserves to feel alone. And when you're bullying another person, you are bringing another soul down, and that to me is disgusting.

Love your neighbors, love your people. And most importantly, LOVE YOURSELF.

If you don't love yourself, that's what makes it easier to not love or care about others and their feelings.